Receiving Encouragement Through Grace
I had just gotten off of the phone with my niece Lizzy! She and her new husband will be traveling from Mississippi to watch my daughter Hannah in her first play! We were working out the details of the trip. Because Lizzy is one if not the biggest encourager I have when it comes to my blog, I shared with her the humbling opportunity that God has given to me to be a contributing author to “Satisfaction In Christ Alone!” She has helped me beyond what I could ever hope. She knows what she is doing in this techy world.
On the other hand, I fly by the seat of my pants, hoping I am getting it right! As is usual of Lizzy, she was so uplifting, encouraging, and excited for this opportunity that had come my way! Don’t you love an encourager?
We finished our conversation and I hung up the phone so encouraged and uplifted when suddenly this thought entered my mind.
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She did not really mean what she said.
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She was not excited for me.
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She was just being nice.
I sat down at the table where I was writing and God spoke this into my heart.
You are not receiving the encouragement that I Am sending.
The Bible tells us to test the spirits to see if they are from God. I am here to tell you that it was not satan speaking this into my heart because he wants to keep me bound. I know it was the Spirit of God speaking correction and conviction into my heart!
I have dealt my whole life with self-esteem issues and acceptance. By the grace of God, He is bringing me through this bondage. Yes, it is bondage in more ways than you could ever imagine or think! Today as He spoke those words into my heart, I knew that He was disciplining me and correcting me. At that moment, I put my hands in the air, and with tears streaming down my face, I worshiped the Lord! The God who created and sovereignly governs everything spoke truth into my heart!
There is Joy in the Discipline
It may sound strange that I worshipped God in the middle of being disciplined. I have more times than I can count, repented, mourned, and begged God to heal my heart. I have read scripture, preached the gospel to myself, and done everything that I know to do. Oh, how I can relate to the apostle Paul. He implored God three times to take away his thorn in the flesh. God’s response to Paul, ” My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.”
There was joy in my heart, contentment that came over me as God spoke, “you are not receiving My encouragement,” because I knew that in that moment of discipline, He was healing me. It sounds like an oxymoron, joy, and discipline in the same sentence. But, look at what Hebrews 12:1 teaches:
All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; Yet for those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields a peaceful fruit of righteousness.
Notice that Hebrews says, “discipline seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful.” It seems not to be joyful hints that a kind of residual joy of hope hangs on beneath the cloud. But the tears and the sighs and the groans are so many that it looks like sorrow has the upper hand- at least for a season. As it does when a child cries after a spanking. ( Strongs definition)
There is a breakthrough in the discipline when your heart sings for joy, knowing that God is breaking the ties that bind. God’s work of grace is working in your heart!
Discipline gives us the impression that it is sorrowful. We should be sorrowful for our sin. We should mourn it and hate it! Yes, self-worth issues and acceptance are sins! It is pride in its highest form. I do hate it, and I want it gone. But God’s grace is sufficient!
I believe that God is giving grace as He disciplines us. Grace upon grace. Sometimes I believe He frees in an instant and sometimes for whatever reason, only known to Him, it is a process.
Can I Accept Staying in God’s Working Grace? Can you?
After Paul implored the Lord three times to take away his thorn in the flesh and God basically said No, this was Paul’s response:
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He was Glad
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He boasted in his weakness
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He was well content with weakness
So, I am receiving the grace that God supplies for this moment. I am waiting on Him to complete His work. I have received His encouragement that comes! I know that He loves me;
My son do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by Him; for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines and He scourges every son whom He receives.
If God has you in the midst of sanctifying grace, rest! Know that He is healing and conforming you into the image of His Son!
And so what do I say? I say let the rains of disappointment come, if they water the plants of spiritual grace. Let the winds of adversity blow, if they serve to root more securely the trees that God has planted. I say, let the sun of prosperity be eclipsed, if that brings me closer to the true light of life. Welcome, sweet discipline, discipline designed for my joy, discipline designed to make me what God wants me to be. Author unknown.
Gleniece says
Congratulations on your new position as a contributing author! I’m so happy for you. (No, really, I am!)
I’ve dealt with not accepting praise myself. We have that running dialog in our heads saying, “oh, she really didn’t mean that complement or she doesn’t really like me, etc.” Why do we do that to ourselves? God’s encouragement often comes from the mouth of others.
There is a beautiful cleansing when we accept discipline from God. I’m also thankful for the grace He bestows upon us during that process.
Thank you for sharing this.
Lisa says
Thank you Gleniece!I am humbled and so excited to be apart of the group! I am with you, Why do we let those words run through our heads? I am done with it too much bondage.Yes, there is a beautiful cleansing when we accept His discipline! So very grateful for the grace He bestows!Have a great week! Hope your studies are going well:)
bloggerlovestheking says
Girl you accept that praise and congratulations. I am reading a book talking exactly about this. One quote I loved “As long as I daily make the choice to be guided by His truth, He replaces my holllowness with a wholeness of love that has no gaps. We don’t have to get fulfillment from our loved ones.
Lisa says
Deborah, thank you so much for your encouragement! That quote is wonderful. I am going to write it down so I can read it often! God bless you! I am so glad you stopped by today:)
Andrea says
we have to be willing to let God encourage us
Lisa says
Yes, we do! He is our biggest encourager!
Sheila says
I deal with this often!!! Thanks for sharing!!!! And Hannah in a play???? How did I miss this???? Love you ( truly) and love your blogs and bible studies
Lisa says
It is encouraging that we do not struggle alone!I will be praying for you, Shelia! Yes, Hannah was in “Sherlock” with Players of Light. She had a blast. Shelia, I love you too. So grateful God crossed our paths! Thank you for your sweet encouraging words! Cannot wait for you to be up and out again. Miss you bunches:)
Tara says
Congratulations on becoming a contributing author! I am sorry that you had to question and struggle for a bit instead of just rejoicing, but we do always come out stronger on the other end!
Lisa says
Thank you, Tara! I am so very excited and humbled to be apart of the group! We do come out stronger on the other end!All worth it knowing God was in control the entire time!Everything works out according to His timing. Thank you for sharing today:) God Bless!